Wow, the thought of a dildo always puts me in a funny frame of mind. My friend recently asked me why these sex toys exist and, truth be told, I didn’t know where to start. Well, after doing a bit of research, here’s what I’ve learned about the world of dildo’s.
Firstly, dildos are one of the oldest sex toys in existence. It seems that even in ancient times, people wanted something to stimulate those areas of the body that cannot be reached with human hands. As far back as 30,000 BC, man has been creating dildos out of stones, wood, leather, and even cucumbers! As crazy as it sounds, it is true!
Second, dildos are believed to have been used by all during different eras. They were employed to ensure sexual pleasure by both men and women. Even the ancient Greeks and Romans thought of dildos as a tool to help pass sleepless nights filled with worries and stress. This shows us just how much these sex toys have been utilized over the years.
Third, dildos serve a dual purpose. Not only do they help scratch ones itch, but they also provide a sense of security in intimate relationships. Many people, particularly those in long distance relationship, use dildos to feel connected to a partner. Additionally, many couples use the tools to add a layer of spice to their love life. It is a great way to keep things fresh and interesting.
Fourth, dildos are important to those who lack partners. Whether it is due to shyness, fear of rejections, now having anyone to explore with, and other personal reasons, some people use dildos as a form of self gratification. Masturbation has been found to help increase self-esteem, which can be a game changer in someone’s life.
Fifth, health wise speaking, dildos have proven beneficial. There has been research to show that regular use of dildos will help strengthen pelvic muscles, thus resulting in escalated sexual pleasure. It may also help support the yoni, thus helping to improve sexual well-being. Moreover, when used during mediation, dildos can be an excellent tool for reducing stress and anxiety.
Finally, dildos come in all shapes, sizes, and colors. An individual can pick from a range of materials, like glass, metal, silicone, and rubber. Plus, there are dual ended models, curved ones for G-spot stimulation, vibrating dildos, and more. This shows us just how much thought goes into the process of creating these sex toys.
Above all, no matter what your sexual preference is, I think dildos are simply here to help those who need a little boost in the bedroom. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a little extra help to spice things up or to get in touch with your physical needs. And that is why dildos exist.
What’s more, I have recently read about how dildos have an even higher use than just sex and pleasure. In a recent report, it was revealed that there are medical benefits of using a dildo too. It is reported that dildos can help in alleviating menstrual cramp, can help to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles, and can even help to make sex more enjoyable.
Furthermore, it is believed that using dildos for sexual pleasure helps you to become more confident in the bedroom. Unlike masturbating with the hand, that is a very solitary activity; dildos, on the other hand, helps someone to connect with their body and feel more confident. It is believed that it helps you to become more sexually confident, in turn gives you the confidence to talk with your partner about sex more openly.
Not to mention, I think that an added bonus of using dildos is that they can help to make all experiences of sex positive. Unlike the hand, using dildos allows for safe and healthy exploration of all kinds of sex. You can experiment with different speeds and pressures, test out different angles for penetration, and much more with dildos too.
Furthermore, I believe that dildos also bring about a lot of pleasure in relationship that are not just between people. I have heard some people reporting that dildos can help them to further explore and connect to their own bodies and desires. Additionally, for those finding it hard to orgasm alone, using a dildo can help to stimulate them to reach orgasm, in turn making it easier for them to then have sex with their partner.
In a nutshell, I think it is very clear why dildos exist. They are a source of fun and pleasure for many individuals and couples and they are great tools that can help to open your eyes to self love and sexual exploration. From providing medical benefits to indulging in days of absolute bliss, one thing is sure that dildos are here to stay. From aiding in sexual exploration to adding that extra spice to relationships, dildos are here for us to use and enjoy!