My friend and I recently decided to try out the amazing suction cup dildo for anal play. We were so excited to try it out and see what all the rave was about. After unboxing it, I felt a bit apprehensive, the suction cup seemed like it was going to be a bit intimidating. But my friend reassured me that it was going to be ok and that if I followed some key tips, we would have a great time.
So first off, it’s important to make sure the suction cup is mounted on a flat surface. This ensures that it will stay securely in place and won’t move around when you load it up. Additionally, it’s essential to use a lot of lube. Water-based lube is usually best and it helps make the process smoother and less painful.
If you have anal plugs or toys that already have suction cups attached, use that instead of the one that comes with the suction cup dildo. This can help keep the anus open, which can provide a more pleasant experience once you start using the toy.
The next step is to get relaxed. This means really focusing on your breath and trying to block out any of the stresses that can come from experimenting with something new. Doing something like a meditation or deep breathing exercise beforehand can help you find some inner calm, and reduce any anxiety you might be feeling.
Now if you’re ready, the time to use the suction cup has arrived! Go slowly and focus on the sensations. When you start to feel sensations of pleasure, that’s when you know you’re doing it right. Pay attention to your body and take your time, after all it’s a journey and not a race.
It can be scary to plunge into unknown territories, but with the right precautions and the right tools, anal play can be a lot of fun! Don’t forget to always use protection, take things slow, and play safe. I’m so glad my friend and I gave this a try, it was an amazing experience.
Having opened the door to anal play, I’ve started to explore further. I now use other anal-oriented toys such as butt plugs and anal beads. I even go for double penetration by combining the suction cup dildo with another anal favorite, like a prostate massager.
Speaking of which, if you’re comfortable enough to venture there, the prostate is a great place to explore. But, as it can be quite sensitive, it’s important to be extra gentle. A slow rocking motion along with plenty of lube can help you hit the right spot and make the experience really pleasurable.
If you want to increase the intensity, then adding a vibrator to the mix can also do the trick. This can take your play to whole new levels and bring out new sensations you could never have imagined before. You can even add nipple or clitoral clamps if you want to add a bit of extra kink to the experience!
For those who want to experiment with BDSM, restraints can be a great way to add a little spice. Restraints allow you to gain total control over your partner’s movements and, as a result, can be completely exhilarating. This is a great way to test your boundaries and make sure your play stays safe at the same time.
For those of you who prefer to keep it simple, there’s nothing wrong with just using the suction cup dildo the classic way. Go slow and steady and find the perfect angle and depth that gives you the greatest pleasure.
Finally, if you find that the suction cup just isn’t working for you, then you can always ditch it completely and vibrators go for hands-free pleasure using a strap-on. The great thing about strap-ons is that you don’t need the suction power of the cup in order to enjoy anal sex dolls, which makes them perfect for those who find the suction cup dildo a bit too intense.
Whether you decide to go hands-free or strap-on, the main thing to remember is to have fun. Don’t rush into anything you’re not ready for, and always keep open and honest communication with your partner. Embarking on your anal journey should be an exciting and rewarding experience, so I wish you tons of luck and pleasure!