My buddy doesn’t know what a dildo is, let alone how far it can go up the ass! He really is a bit old-fashioned. This is especially funny here in the 21st century where we can find anything from BDSM to vibrators on the internet.
I always try to bring a little comedic relief into a conversation, like when my friend asks me this question with an innocent look on his face. I’m like, “Oh, a dildo? That’s a sex toy. And it can go up as far as you want.” That’s about the best description I can give him.
But let’s talk about the specifics. To start, let me tell you my experience with using a dildo. Being a beginner at this kind of thing, I was pretty scared about what I was getting into. But I wanted to try something new and spice up my sex life. So I took a deep breath and inserted my dildo, not sure how it would feel or where it would go. And I was pleasantly surprised to find that it wasn’t as scary as I had anticipated.
My dildo just seemed to slide right in. I got the sense that it could have gone even further if I wanted, but I was content with where it was. If the sensation became too intense, I just pulled out a bit and it felt great.
Understanding the anatomy of the body helps with how far a dildo can go. For instance, your anus is about four inches deep. You may have heard that it ‘opens up’ depending on arousal, but it will never be much bigger than four inches. This is why it is important to go slowly and stop if you feel any pain.
You can use fingers and other items to stretch and massage the anus but those items won’t be able to take you too much farther than four inches. So if you want to go deeper it’s best to invest in a dildo. It comes in various shapes and sizes and is able to go as far as your body can handle. Knowing the width and circumference of the dildo you’re about to use is also important so that you don’t insert something too big and hurt yourself.
Dildos come in vibrating and non-vibrating varieties and are great for solo play and partnered play. Vibrating dildos often offer the most intense sensations and can even be used to target other erogenous zones in addition to the anus. And non-vibrating dildos are great for those who are new to anal play or just want a different kind of experience.
When it comes to how far a dildo can go up the ass, it all depends on your individual body and how aroused you are. Make sure that you only use lubricant-friendly toys, start slowly and with smaller dildos, and listen to your body if it tells you to stop. Overall, if you take your time and treat yourself kindly, there’s no limit to how pleasurable anal pleasure can be!