Ah, malo masturbarse.​.​.​I think this is something that us humans just can’t get away from – even if we wanted to.​ It feels good, and for some it’s even necessary.​ Maybe that’s why, so many of us do it.​ I know I’ve been guilty of it more than once.​

I remember the first time I ‘played with myself’, so to speak.​ I was about 16 and feeling all kinds of pressures from the hormones and I just had to do something.​ I was scared of what my parents would think but I was too curious even for my own good.​ So, I scooted up on my bed, got comfortable and just started exploring.​ I surrendered myself to the pleasure and never looked back.​

It had been nice and oh-so-taboo.​ Of course, I tried to restrain myself and found it really hard to keep it a secret – but I’m glad I did.​ I still feel the same kind of pleasure today, connected to the knowledge that my decisions weren’t rash.​ I owe it to myself to explore and discover what feels good, without feeling guilty about it.​ I don’t mean to get preachy, but if something as simple as self-exploration can be such a great and thoughtful pleasure, then it’s ok to keep exploring.​

After all, it’s only human to want to know more about ourselves.​ We should be open about it and talk to our friends so we can get to know each other better and share a different kind of intimacy.​ Masturbation isn’t something to be ashamed of, it’s just another way of understanding our bodies.​

With that in mind, it’s important to remember that there’s no one-size-fits-all way of enjoying ourselves.​ Some prefer solitude, others need background noise; some people use their hands and others use toys or vibrators -whatever feels good is worth doing.​ In the end, it’s all about creating gorgeous experiences.​

The same goes for change.​ Society is dynamic and it continuously calls for new approaches to sex dolls and relationships.​ It’s ok to take a break from routine and add a surprise here and there.​ Taking the time to explore new positions, Rochester fantasies, sexual accessories or trying different types of lube, can be an awesome experience and a true journey to self-eroticism.​

And while we’re open to experimentation, it’s essential to be aware of our bodies and the signals it’s giving us.​ Sometimes we’re open to try more than what our bodies are asking for.​ We can go too far, which could lead to injury or even become dangerous.​ So, let’s be mindful and remember to take time to rest and breathe.​

It’s also important to make sure that masturbation is a natural, healthy and liberating activity.​ Like choosing to treat our bodies with respect and understanding.​ Free of judgement, shame and guilt.​ That’s why it’s essential to get proper information on the topic and be able to talk about it freely.​ We are grown-ups, after all.​

Just because our culture has hardwired us to associate pleasure with guilt doesn’t mean it’s the norm.​ It’s ok to allow ourselves to feel pleasure and even to enjoy it more than once.​ We must realize this muscularly practice can bring much pleasure and satisfaction – it’s ok to take care of ourselves and find new ways of exploring our body.​ It’s part of being an adult and recognizing the importance of finding self-love.​

Ultimately, it’s up to us to make our own decisions and decide how far we want to go with our bodies.​ Everyone deserves pleasure and it’s ok to take a moment for ourselves – enjoy it, explore it, discover it.​ As long as it brings us peace, it’s worth it and never wrong.​ We all have different thresholds for pleasure and they should definitely be explored!